Scent Of A Woman

Sometimes when I am teasing j I like to restrain him, put a blindfold on him and put earplugs in his ears. Cutting off some of his senses seems to intensify his other senses, specifically touch. When I first started doing this, my thoughts were to intensify the teasing I was giving him, taking him close to orgasm and then denying him. I have also toyed with hot and cold this way and get very strong reactions from him. Oddly enough, I had never considered appealing to his sense of smell, either when he was restrained like this or in normal, day to day life.

I have never been much of a perfume wearer. I put some on from time to time, when we go out for the evening or a special occasion, but not a day to day thing. But I am wondering if I should change that. The interesting thing about scent is that it lingers and affects all around it. I am not talking about bathing in perfume and reeking, but rather the soft scent that follows a woman wearing a particularly nice perfume. In this way, I could be touching j even when I was not in direct contact with him.

I wonder why I haven't thought of this sooner, since scents affect me strongly. I love pulling out our leather items and pressing them to my nose, deeply inhaling the scent that I associate both with looking sexy and our D/s love.

Mistress Loves Some CBT

As I have written before, it is often hard to find time for the sexual aspects of D/s with kids in the house. It is important to j and me to keep this part of our lives private from our children. While they do see j deferring to me to make decisions, doing my nails, etc, they view this as him admiring and loving me. I like to take advantage of the brief moments we have when the kids are otherwise occupied.

Over the past few days I have been introducing brief moments of CBT (cock and ball torture) whenever possible. It turns me on, and keeps j on his toes. If we are sitting on the couch, massaging my feet, I have jammed my heels into his balls. I love watching him squirm, trying to hold his legs together to protect himself. Whenever he does this, I order him to open his legs so I can have access to his cock and balls.

The other day I had a few moments alone in the bedroom with him. I ordered him to lock the door and pull down his pants. he stood before me and I began to attach clothespins to his scrotum. Periodically I would tug and pull on the clothespins as he squirmed. Once I had quite a few clothespins attached, I told him to look at himself and teased him, telling him that he looked like a peacock (he really did!). I slapped his balls several times, and he gasped in pain. Then I began to pull the clothespins off, one by one. I know from our experiences in the past that this is the most painful part for him. I became so aroused as I watched him squirm. Throughout this time he maintained at least a partial erection, and his moans clearly were more of pleasure than of pain.

While sometimes our moments of intimacy are few and far between, we make the most of them!

Erogenous Zones

It is funny how, over time, my senses change. My sense of taste has definitely changed over the years. Foods that I used to hate I now love (shrimp, onions, green peppers). I think that the sense of touch must also change over time.

I am sitting on the couch after a long day at work, getting my nightly foot massage. As usual, it feels great and relaxes me, but tonight I felt something new. As j rubbed along the sole of my right foot, I felt aroused. I am not talking relaxed and in the mood aroused...I am talking if he keeps doing this I might be the first woman to have an orgasm just by getting her foot rubbed aroused! I have never felt this sensation before, and I am loving it.

j decided to experiment and see if he can bring the sensation on by rubbing that area on my left foot. I feel it slightly there, but not nearly as strong. The sensation is the most intense when he initially touches the area. It almost makes me shiver, and I can feel myself getting wet from his touch.

While I have never experienced such a dramatic change in sensations, this is not completely new to me. My breasts, which were never very sensitive until a few years ago, are now incredibly sensitive. Also, I can reach orgasm very quickly now, whereas years ago it took me quite some time (30 minutes or so). It is not unusual now for me to have four or five orgasms in an evening. I know that j enjoys this, even though I like leaving him wishing for just one!