Under Pressure

Alas, My househusband is no longer! Several weeks ago he began his new job. Two weeks went far too fast, although I feel blessed that in this economy he was able to find a job so quickly. His commute is well over an hour (each way), so morning duties that usually fell on his shoulders now rest neatly on mine. Eh, I'm up for the challenge.

My post today is only slightly D/s-related, so for my readers who come here for the juicy details... fair warning. I had a conversation with a co-worker recently about working under pressure. It was just a few words back and forth, but it was one of those exchanges that has stayed in my mind, and I have found myself reflecting upon it. After hearing that I was taking on additional responsibilities (with regards to work), she said something to the effect of, "You are just like me. You take on a lot because you know you work best under pressure." There is a lot of truth in that statement. I DO take on a lot, I DO work best when I am challenged and pressed a bit.

On a similar note, j and I were both admiring a girl we saw recently. She was in the marines, and dressed in her uniform. She sat tall in her chair, not even resting against the back. We were in an office for about thirty minutes, and she never fidgeted or looked around. She was focused, well-dressed, her hair and makeup were well-done. j commented (as he has before) that he wishes he had been in the military, that he had developed that sense of discipline. We joked about my becoming his drill sergeant- and while it was funny at the time, I could definitely see it being beneficial for us both. He has been slacking a lot lately, due partly to his own laziness and partly to my lack of desire (being overwhelmed with work). I would love to have a submissive who is dedicated and performs tasks without being asked, but j is not one of those subs. I accept that, but I do believe he needs an ass kicking every now and then!

New Gadget on the Blog

At my request, j has added meebo to My blog. It will allow Me to chat with you, My readers. If you see Me online, say hi!

House-husband in the Making

So many things have happened since my last post! Due to the poor economy, we have decided to close our business. Financially, we were taking a loss each month, and even though we have put a lot of our money into it, it is time to get out. Fortunately, I work outside of the business, and my income is enough to support our family, although it will mean living on a very tight budget until my husband gets a job. I am confident that he can, although it might take a while.

A few days ago, he started referring to himself as a house-husband. At first, I was a little taken aback by this, but now I am beginning to embrace it. I like the idea of him spending his days caring for our daughter, the house, and meeting My needs. While initially through the stress of closing the business my Dominance had waned, I feel it was returned, as strong as it ever was.

One of the great things about having a submissive around all the time is knowing that my needs (whatever they may be) will be met at a moment's notice. This morning, for instance, as he got out of the shower, I ordered j to lick Me. He moaned a bit as he got between my legs and began lapping away at my pussy. I became so wet, and enjoyed grinding myself against his face as he licked me, ensuring that entire face was covered in my juices.

I squeezed and slapped his balls, and rubbed his cock periodically. He was so aroused that he could take very little before he pulled away from me (his sign that he is close to the edge). In fact, when he did ultimately climax, I was not even touching him.

I plan on giving him a list of tasks I expect him to complete each day. Amidst the chores, I will be sure to intermingle different tasks put in for my pleasure, such as wearing clothespins on his nipples, writing a post for his blog, making a sexy video for me, or putting in a butt plug before going about his other chores. The ideas abound!

In the midst of all these transitions, I have been fantasizing quite a bit. My developing friendship with another submissive has caused me to fantasize about having j and him together, both serving Me simultaneously. I'll be sure to post that fantasy soon... as it is VERY hot!!