Erogenous Zones

It is funny how, over time, my senses change. My sense of taste has definitely changed over the years. Foods that I used to hate I now love (shrimp, onions, green peppers). I think that the sense of touch must also change over time.

I am sitting on the couch after a long day at work, getting my nightly foot massage. As usual, it feels great and relaxes me, but tonight I felt something new. As j rubbed along the sole of my right foot, I felt aroused. I am not talking relaxed and in the mood aroused...I am talking if he keeps doing this I might be the first woman to have an orgasm just by getting her foot rubbed aroused! I have never felt this sensation before, and I am loving it.

j decided to experiment and see if he can bring the sensation on by rubbing that area on my left foot. I feel it slightly there, but not nearly as strong. The sensation is the most intense when he initially touches the area. It almost makes me shiver, and I can feel myself getting wet from his touch.

While I have never experienced such a dramatic change in sensations, this is not completely new to me. My breasts, which were never very sensitive until a few years ago, are now incredibly sensitive. Also, I can reach orgasm very quickly now, whereas years ago it took me quite some time (30 minutes or so). It is not unusual now for me to have four or five orgasms in an evening. I know that j enjoys this, even though I like leaving him wishing for just one!

Farewell to an Old Friend

I am a dominant woman, therefore I love submissive men and shopping! I regularly combine these two activities and shop for toys and equipment to use on sh, as well as sexy lingerie. I do much of my shopping online, since it is quick and convenient. Online stores like Stockroom and Extreme Restraints carry so many delightfully wicked things! But sometimes I like to see and touch items before I buy them (especially if that means I get to tease sh during our store visit).

Most erotic boutiques cater to the vanilla crowd. They are filled with dildos and vibrators, some lingerie, boatloads of lube, and every variety of condom imaginable. Any BDSM toys are in the far corner, away from the sight of the soccer moms and beltway dads. Usually the selection is quite limited: some fur-lined cuffs, maybe a whip or two, nipple clamps, blindfolds, and rope. These boutiques make me truly appreciate when I come across a store devoted entirely to KINK!

Only two stores that I have visited so far have given me the variety and selection I desired. One store is Eros Boutique, located in Boston. It is a super-small store, crammed with D/s related toys, clothing and equipment. I could easily drop thousands of dollars there! But the second store is my true love: D/s Toychest in Meriden, CT. This shop, located above a pizza place, is like a department store of depravity. It is filled with any and every D/s toy or piece of furniture I can imagine. I visit this store at least once a year, and always leave with a big bag full of goodies.

Sadly, D/s Toychest closed down recently. Apparently the owner passed away, and the decision was made to close up shop. I am sad to see it go, not just because it had so many great things, but also because I always felt comfortable and welcomed there. Last time I was there I spoke with a gentleman about a D/s scene he had witnessed involving two women that sounded tantalizing! I hope that someone will reopen it soon, as I love having a place where I can try my toys before I buy them.

Somewhere in heaven there is a horny man with a whip in his hand!

New Acquaintances from the D/s world

sh and I have talked about becoming friends with couples in the lifestyle for quite some time now. Unfortunately, this is a little easier said than done. Sure, we could attend a munch, but the thought of being that public with our relationship is a bit too much for me at this point. I was happy to come across an ad on Craigslist about a week ago from another femdom couple in a similar situation.

After an introductory email, we decided that the best first step would be to chat online. We scheduled a chat meeting for 10 pm last night. Throughout the day yesterday I wondered how the chat would go: would we have anything besides our kink in common? would it be awkward talking to two people who already have an insight into my sex life? would the conversation flow at all?

It turns out I had nothing to be concerned about. Just a few minutes into the chat the conversation was flowing freely, and felt comfortable. Much of the chat centered on our present and past relationships. We share quite a bit in common in that area. It was refreshing to be able to express myself and not have to worry if something I say about sh might reflect our D/s relationship.

I hope that we will be in touch again soon, they seem to care deeply for both each other and their expressions of Dominance and submission. They have a great blog that can be found at The Path Least Chosen.

You CAN Teach an Old Dog New Tricks

Okay, so sh is not exactly old, but several years ago it was pretty clear that he would always have distaste for the pain I wanted to inflict upon him. He was...for lack of a better term, a wimp. Anything beyond a light spanking was too much for him, and while I knew he was willing to attempt to take more pain, it quickly removed him from subspace. Definitely not the desired effect!

Fast forward a few years, and lots of play time in between. I have spent quite a bit of time enjoy sh's body in the way that I desire, while trying to make the experience enjoyable for him as well. Spankings and croppings have been interspersed with stroking his cock or rubbing his ass. Over time I increased the amount of pain I subjected him to, as well as the pleasure he received for taking it. It seems I have made a breakthrough. He is able to accept much more pain now, and remains aroused throughout. I am pleased that he has grown to become a better submissive. He is now meeting my needs in ways he could not before.

I am pleased to report that I can enjoy the glow of his ass without listening to him whine afterwards! Life is good!

Strap-On Fun

It always amazes me how the mind can replay especially intense moments, over and over and over with almost perfect clarity. That is what my mind is doing right now. Last night was a particularly erotic night for sh and I. I began the day by warning him that I would be taking him with my strap on. Whenever possible, I teased sh with little tidbits of what was to come (cum?).

I was sure to reach over and grope my boy several times during the day. I wanted him to know that I was aroused and thinking about what I had planned for him. Like a good sub, he shaved completely without me asking, as he knows I prefer him hairless. I waited and took my shower later in the evening, also shaving completely. I spent a few moments preparing the bedroom - lighting a candle and turning off the lights, turning on some music, and getting some toys out of my cabinet. Because I had not taken him with my strap-on in a while, I knew that I would need to ease him in to the size of my dildo. As I put on my strap-on, I immediately began to get wet. I stood alone in the bedroom, stroking it and anticipating taking him. After catching my breath, I went to the living room to retrieve him. I told him to undress completely, and put his Aneros in (a toy that stimulates the prostate). I smiled as he squirmed about, trying to find a position in which to insert the toy. I then took my leash and attached it to his collar, telling him to crawl on the floor behind me to the bedroom.

Once in the bedroom, I instructed sh to suck my cock. He sucked it with an intensity that I have rarely seen, and I felt my pussy get even wetter. This dildo is of average to slightly large size, so I was pleased to see him get much of it in his mouth. After allowing him this pleasure, I instructed him to get on the bed and put his hands over his head. I strapped him to the bed. I generally like having sh immobile when I play with him. For a while I played with him, allowing him moments of pleasure when I would stroke, lick and even lightly suck his cock. Of course, for each moment of pleasure, I provided several moments of pain. I used my crop on his ass and balls, the Wartenburg pinwheel over his entire body, and (a new one for us) hot wax. The wax was especially exciting for me. I loved watching his body squirm and writhe as the hot wax hit him. I thought he was going to jump off the bed as it hit his cock!

Throughout this time, I occasionally reached down and moved the Aneros about in his ass. I could tell it was stimulating his prostate, as he moaned from the pressure I applied. Now the real fun was to begin! I retrieved from my cabinet a few more toys - a small dildo, a larger inflatable dildo, and some rope. I removed the Aneros and used the small dildo on him a bit. Like the bitch he is, sh complained that the plastic at the base of the dildo was irritating him. I responded by removing it and inserting the much larger inflatable dildo. While it was painful for him at times, he was very receptive to it, and I was pleased when I saw the entire dildo was in him. He gasped each time I pumped it up a bit. Now, with his ass completely stuffed, I began to toy with his cock and balls. I slapped them a bit, then took my rope and bound his cock and balls. I like to bind them tightly and watch as his cock becomes even harder, straining against the rope. With his cock bound, his arms suspended above him, and his stomach covered in dried wax, he truly was a sight. I took several pictures of him like this.

The highlight of the night was taking him with my strap-on. I removed the inflatable dildo, released his arms and instructed him to get on his hands and knees. Since he is significantly taller than I am, taking him this way is always a challenge, but for me it is worth pursuing as I love watching my cock thrust in and out of his ass. My juices flowed freely as I pounded his ass, in and out, with greater and greater intensity. Occasionally I reached around and stroked his cock a bit, still wrapped in rope. I came twice while fucking him, as the feeling and sight of my cock banging his ass was too much for me! Generous mistress that I am, I allowed him to cum as well. I instructed him to go wash up and then come back to bed.

Never one to be satisfied by just a couple of orgasms, I instructed my sub to lick my pussy. I wanted him to realize just how sopping wet I had become. He drank all of my juices, his face covered with them by the time he was done. I had several more orgasms, at one point my pussy quivering so long I did not feel like it would ever stop!

It was a powerful night, one that I hope to recreate again in the near future. I woke this morning feeling more dominant and already fantasizing about what I have in store for him next time!