I admit it, I'm a moaner. More accurately, I am a moaner, a screamer and a dirty-talker. I like my sex LOUD. Whether the intimacy is snuggling, making love, or incredibly erotic D/s play, I constantly make some sort of noise. I can't even kiss without moaning!
I love to talk dirty. I suppose this contradicts my behavior in public, and maybe that is what makes it so erotic. I like being in control, and talking dirty allows me to direct my pleasure just the way I want it.
"Put your head between my legs and lick my pussy. I want to feel your tongue lapping at my clit." "Yeah, you're my bitch. I know you will do anything for me"... followed, of course, by taunts about all the various things I could make him do. All this excites me (and my submissive) even more, making the moment of climax utterly intense.
I was almost there! what a picture in my mind you just painted.Thank you.I'm enjoying your blog.
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ReplyDeleteI find it amazing in a woman when she feels free to vocalise herself like that. It moves me in such a powerful way. It's almost as if I can feel her pleasure. I find a woman's voice can reach deep within me and my being. I couldn't ignore it if I tried, not that I would want to.
Robert A.
I think I moan quite a lot, too (however not near as much as you). And I enjoy dirty talk. Not always, but from time to time.
ReplyDeleteI wonder: Do you do all the talking, or does your submissive say something, too? I'm asking because my husband and I found it difficult to create something like "submissive dirty talk".
I sometimes make him say how much he needs to be fucked or to fuck me, but even that is more like a dominant-led interrogation. There does not seem to be much that a submissive could say of their own accord - or is there?
BTW: My husband once wrote a blog entry on this topic:
rené: Submissive Dirty Talk.
Tamara- I do the vast majority of the talking. j is very inhibited when it comes to dirty talk, and even when I command that he talk dirty, it is pathetic at best! It's more funny than sexy.
ReplyDeleteLike you, I will on occasion tell j to beg Me to fuck him or something similar, but yes- Dominant-led interrogation describes it very well.
Over the years, j has turned into quite the moaner. he moans every time he cums now... then again, I am sure that is due in part to the fact that I don't allow him to cum very often!
Chastitize and anon,
ReplyDeleteI know my moans/groans/screams/dirty talk enhances things for j as well. It's no surprise that j can barely keep his climax in check!