I genuinely enjoy sex and most all things sexual. I read about sex, I talk about sex, I spend long periods of time thinking about sex. I don't think I am the classic nymphomaniac, but surely I am not far from it.
I started masturbating the age of 11 after stumbling upon my father's pornography. I had no idea what I was doing, really... I just knew that if felt incredible. To this day, even when j is satisfying me sexually, I enjoy masturbating.
It is a great feeling to control My orgasm in a way that no man can. I don't care how well he may know my body, only I can bring myself right to the brink and back down again. Only I know precisely where to touch and just how to rub.
My best D/s thoughts and plans are crafted when I masturbate; when I allow my body to relax, my mind to wander, and my sexuality to flourish.
I hear you...I feel the same way. I started to masturbate young too and it became my secret passion each night. I can keep myself on the edge for up to 4 hours, literally I have been right on the edge for that long. I agree that no matter how good the man is they just can't control like we can with it.
ReplyDeleteOh forgot to say that I too do my best evil planning when masturbating :)
ReplyDeleteMiss Christina- I may have to practice some more! I can keep myself on the edge for maybe an hour or so, but certainly not four. I'm impressed!
ReplyDeleteBut... since a woman is multi-orgasmic why keep oneself on the edge for so long? I am a man and I do keep myself on edge when I masturbate. Most often that is all I do, i.e. I do not have an orgasm, but simply stop, only to "edge" myself on the next day, and so forth.
ReplyDeleteBut a woman has no real need to keep herself on edge for hours. Do you have any comments on this?
My Mistress doesn't like to be kept on edge at all.She say she loses it.So when she on the edge of the wave, she got to have her orgasm without been teased or denialed.
ReplyDeletefeel like kneeling down & licking u... can i
ReplyDeleteI just wanted to say something to this comment:
ReplyDelete"But... since a woman is multi-orgasmic why keep oneself on the edge for so long? I am a man and I do keep myself on edge when I masturbate. Most often that is all I do, i.e. I do not have an orgasm, but simply stop, only to "edge" myself on the next day, and so forth."
I don't know about her, but not all women are so multi orgasmic. I Can cum a few times in a night but it takes a lot of work, they don't just come super easily. So I prefer to sometimes enjoy the edge. When you are right on the edge and stay there for a long time, that is where the most pleasure is really. You can take a 30 seconds of pleasure the actual orgasm lasts and stretch it out so it lasts for hours and then ends with that extra nice 30 seconds. There is a benefit to it, it just feels so damn good! And being the Mistress or Domme ultimately you can cum whenever you want, so it's not really so frustrating for us.
Thanks for the reply. I was the one who asked about why a woman would edge herself since she is multi-orgasmic. Not all women are multi-orgasmic, you say. True. As a man, edging is the way I have found to derive a pleasure that is -- at least this is how I see it -- akin to multiple orgasms. And as I said, I will often do this kind of edging for days without going allowing myself an orgasm. Sometimes I will do this for two or three weeks. I will, during this time, have sex with my wife, but still not allow myself to come (with her). She now accepts the fact that I enjoy having sex with her without my orgasming. This means that I can be on a sexual high for weeks.
ReplyDeleteThanks again.
Anonymous - here are my thoughts on why a woman might choose to edge. Thanks for your comment- I always love when a comment inspires a post. http://sensualfemdom.blogspot.com/2011/06/edging-during-masturbation.html
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